Plus, I had just been seeing a guy who said I was really good at BJs, so I thought it would be wise to capitalise off that!
JJ: Well it makes sense to have capitalise on your skills haha.
What's the best thing about the industry?
Ellyse: The people I get to meet and work with are phenomenal. I've made so many close friends who I can talk with about anything sex/non-sex related. The porn community in Australia is so friendly and welcoming to newcomers.
JJ: I have to say all the people I've interviewed from Australia have been amazing. Always so welcoming.
What's the worst thing about the industry?
Ellyse: The worst thing would have to be the stigma attached to working as an escort or stripper or in porn. Each role can make you perceived very differently, and admitting to all 3 roles at once can be social suicide in some social settings, especially groups of men.
JJ: The stigma that goes along with being in the industry is crazy because some of the nicest people I know are in the industry.
What's the funniest thing to happen to you whilst working?
Ellyse: I was deep-throating a client and I spewed up on his cock... A lot. He was not happy. I thought it was hilarious.
JJ: That's certainly something that he wasn't expected that's for sure. Pretty sure the client didn't ask for deep throat again haha.
What are you up to at the moment work wise?
Ellyse: Mainly escorting, some porn, and trying to get my mojo back so I can get back into stripping, I also do nude or topless waitressing.
JJ: Well you're certainly keeping yourself busy, I'm sure people are excited to see you getting your mojo back.
Where can people find you online?
JJ: Well having seen your work I highly recommend people go and check out your sites.
What's the best thing about sex?
Ellyse: It's hard to pick! The best thing about sex is it is never the same, even with the same person.... Although I've heard for some people it is repetitive, and that's why they get bored. There's so many ways to pleasure a person, so many toys to try, so many threesomes and foursomes to be had. The possibilities are endless.
JJ: I couldn't have said it better myself haha.
What really turns you on?
Ellyse: Men who are mysterious, charismatic, and charming; Women who are confident and happy, lesbian porn, Shibari, and bondage and discipline with men who posess the aforementioned traits (I am getting a little turned on talking about it!).
JJ: I will happily take credit for turning you on haha.
What's your favourite film?
Ellyse: Anything Harry Potter
JJ: Well from what I hear there are three new Harry Potter films coming so you should be happy.
Where is your favourite place to go on holiday?
Ellyse: If I'm staying in Australia then the Gold Coast is my favourite place for sun and fun.
JJ: I can't wait to get to Australia. So many amazing places to visit there.
Tell me one thing about yourself that I wouldn't know just by looking at you?
Ellyse: I love reading, something not many people may expect.
JJ: I'm a big reader too. I don't go anywhere without a book in my bag.
What's beenyour biggest achievement in life or work so far?
Ellyse: Finishing my counselling course, and deciding to go out on my own as an independent escort.
JJ: I'm surprised how many people who work in the industry have studied counselling. It shows people have a big heart in the industry.
What's the most challenging thing you've had to overcome?
Ellyse: The most challenging thing I've overcome is an eating disorder. I have friends who have had/have an ED. It's still something that's not well understood in the wider community. It can take years to recover and some never do. I'm lucky I had a supportive family and good resources.
JJ: That's very brave of you to talk about that here, I think a lot of wools will be inspired by your strength and bravery to talk about it openly.
What's the nicest thing a fan has ever done for you?
Ellyse: He booked me for an escort then we sat and watched my porn together! So much fun, such a lovely gentleman.
JJ: Well it's always nice when you get a gentleman who knows how to treat you like a lady.
What's one bit of advice you'd give to someone getting into the industry?
Ellyse: The best thing to do is email porn companies. I read some blogs of a few well known female pornstars to see which companies were good to film with.
JJ: What do you think you'll do once you leave the industry?
Ellyse: Either work in community services or be a cosmetic nurse. Something where I get to help people to feel better about themselves, either on the inside or the outside!
JJ: That's a very noble ambition to have. I'm sure you'll be successful in either.
Thank you so much for being with me today. It's been an absolute pleasure. On my next trip to Australia I look forward to meeting up