Wednesday, 24 May 2017

Ivy Moseley

Today I'm interviewing one of the nicest women ever. She's got a massive heart, a great personality and is sexier than any man could ever hope for. She's one of the UK's finest strippers and a future Inside the Porn Girl in the making. She's the amazing Ivy Moseley. 
 
JJ: Hi Ivy. It's a pleasure to get you with me today. It's a long time coming. 

What got you into the industry? 

Ivy: One of my friends was a stripper and she funded her degree by doing it. I was impressed she could do that so when I graduated I had an idea for a business. It needed money so I decided to give stripping a go. It ended up helping to pay off my student loans and help me get set up. 

JJ: That's the great thing about the industry there's money there and if you can invest that money wisely you can truly set yourself up for the future. 

What's the best thing about the industry? 

Ivy: The girls that I get to work with in Southampton. They're all so lovely and supportive of each other. It's truly amazing. I love that I get to meet people from all over the world too. 

JJ: Working with girls that are like that must make the job so much more enjoyable. 
 
What's the worst thing about the industry? 

Ivy: It has to be working Saturday nights. We always get overly drunk people in, groups of football fans etc. They can be a handful at times. 

JJ: I guess that's the downside for sure. Although I guess if they are drunk they'll be bigger spenders haha. 

What's the funniest thing to happen to you whilst working? 

Ivy: One night I was working and I introduced myself to this guy but he was so drunk he didn't take it in. I told him again who I was and this time I told him I was a snake charmer which he seemed happy to accept, I introduced myself again later and for a third time he still had no recollection of me so I introduced myself as a marshmallow factory and again he was perfectly accepting of me being a marshmallow factory. It made me chuckle. 

Oh and another guy once got so drunk he decided to strip off and jump up on the stage and start using the pole which was a sight to behold. 

JJ: Hahaha you've got to love the drunk guys. They never let you down for making a fool of themselves haha. 

What are you up to workwise at the minute? 

Ivy: I've just had a job offer actually to start working on making wedding dresses which is very exciting which means I will possibly start doing camming in the evenings as I love to please. 

JJ: Well I started to panic then that we'd lost you to the dresses but glad to hear you'll still be around. 
 
Where is the best place for people to follow you online? 

Ivy: I keep my Twitter pretty up to date so I'd say there. My name is @ivy_dancesxxx

JJ: Guys get following right now. Stop reading, log onto twitter and follow her!! 

What's the best thing about sex? 

Ivy: I love getting to know a persons body. I love the intamacy and finding the things that turns someone on. 

JJ: What is your biggest turn on? 

Ivy: All I can say is if you kiss my neck it means I'm not responsible for what happens next 

JJ: It's a good job your neck is just out of reach right now haha 

The question everyone loves to find out the answer to, what's your favourite film? 

Ivy: I love Breakfast at Tiffanys and V for Vendetta 

JJ: Hahaha two very different films there, although in my opinion both classics. 
 
Where is your favourite place to go on holiday? 

Ivy: I love Malaga in Spain. You're never more than 15 minutes from the beach and it's got everything you could ever want when you're on holiday 

JJ: I've only been to Malaga once and I loved it in fairness. Everyone was lovely and the beaches were great. 

Tell me one thing about yourself I wouldn't know just by looking at you? 

Ivy: Believe it or not I'm half Indian. my Mum's side of the family are Indian. 

JJ: That is something I'd have never have guessed. That's a great little tidbit of information about you. 
 
What's been your biggest achievement in life of work so far? 

Ivy: My biggest achievement is probably that I've lived independently and supported myself since I was 16. I also put myself through University which I'm incredibly proud of.  It's not always been easy but I'm proud that I've done it all by myself. 

JJ: That must have been tough at first. I'm very impressed Hun. You've done a great job at succeeding at life. 

What's been the biggest thing you've had to overcome? 

Ivy: Finding my self confidence. I have anxiety and depression issues but every day I conquer it and live my life and face those fears head on. 

JJ: I know how hard it can be to face those things and move forward so I'm very impressed that's for sure. 

What's the nicest thing a customer has done for you? 

Ivy: I had a lovely customer who paid for some
dances but he didn't want me to take my clothes off, he just wanted to talk which was lovely. I've also had a couple of marriage proposals too haha. 

JJ: Are you including my marriage proposal in those haha. 
 
What's one piece of advice you'd give to someone getting into the industry? 

Ivy: Dont think it's going to be as bad as some people say it is. Make sure you prioritise your regulars. Try not to steal other girls stage music or regular clients. Get good at networking and make sure you make friends with girls you work with as it makes your work even more enjoyable.

JJ: What do you think you'd be doing if you didn't start in the industry? 

Ivy: I'd have carried on doing ballet I think. I love it so much 

JJ: I could tell you did ballet by how flexible you are. It's amazing and leaves me in awe. 
 
Finally, what's the weirdest rumour you've heard about yourself? 

Ivy: It's not really a weird rumour as it's true but when I first started stripping it went around the university pretty quickly. 

JJ: Thank you so much for being with me today.  Now let's go get drunk and you can teach me some
Ballet moves haha. 

 

Monday, 22 May 2017

Synthia Fixx

Today I'm interviewing a very sexy and naughty pornstar. She knows how to have fun, she knows how to make a guy cum and she knows how to give her fans what they want hence she's taken the time to be with us today. She's the very sexy Synthia Fixx
 
JJ: Welcome to Inside the Porn. It's an absolute pleasure to have you with us. 

What got you into the adult industry?

Synthia: I have lots of friends in the swinger community and ended up meeting Keiran Lee and Danny Mountain and I did my first DP with them back at my house in 2008. Keiran had me do a scene with him for Brazzers and the rest is history. I'm a "tourist" in the industry. I don't do this to be famous, or to even be a PornStar. I do this for fun. I love creating my own content and shooting professionally helps me understand the process. I'm in porn for the sex and the big cocks.

JJ: You're the perfect pornstar. You're in it for the love of cock. What more could any producer want from talent? 
 
What's the best thing about the industry?

Synthia: Being paid for doing something I LOVE. 

JJ: Well making money for something you are truly in love with is certainly an amazing way to live. 

What's the worst thing about the industry? 

Synthia: People's judgemental attitudes about sex and the industry. I'm all about being body and sex positive. 

JJ: I honestly think it's time for people to become more sex and body positive in general. It's the 21st Century yet the sex industry is still treated like we are in the 19th Century. 
 
What's the funniest thing to happen whilst working?

Synthia: I once got an egg stuck in my vagina...long story haha 

JJ: I so want to ask you how and why but I just think I'm going to leave that to the readers imagination haha. 

What are you up to work wise at the moment? 

Synthia: Just shot for Forbidden Fruit Films ( I love them) 
and Brazzers!  But I'm concentrating on creating my own content. Real sex, real people with really big cocks. 

JJ: Well it sounds like you've got a lot on your plate at the moment. I'm sure you'll be creating some amazing new stuff for yourself too. 
 
Where is the best place for people follow you online? 

Synthia: definitely follow me on my Twitter @synfixx I keep people updated about what I'm up to there. 
 
What's the best thing about sex? 

Synthia: I love everything about sex, but I love seeing how far I can push myself sexually, it's my olympics I've been training for since my teens.

JJ: Hahaha that's the best answer I've heard for a long time. A unique way of looking at Sex. I'm sure you'd be winning lots of Gold medals haha. 
 
What are your biggest turn ons? 

Synthia: I'm a size queen-so the bigger the better, I love big boobs, I like real bisexual women...not the posers, muscles, tattoos, did I mention big cocks?

JJ: Well you're a woman who can have anything she wants so why not go for the biggest and best haha. 

The question we wait for most eagerly, what's your favourite movie?

Synthia: I don't really have one...I love taboo Porn and interracial 

JJ: Well taboo is never a bad thing. I've got a feeling a lot of people love the taboo porn too. 
 
Whats your favourite holiday destination?

Synthia: Anywhere with a beach, warm ocean water and hung towel boys. 

JJ: Sounds like you'd be happy anywhere as long as there were hung boys around haha. 

Tell me one thing about yourself that people would never know by looking at you?

Synthia: I'm super clumsy and accident prone. 

JJ: Well what you need is a big strong guy with a big dick to give you something to hold onto just in. See you fall over etc haha. 
 
What's been your biggest achievement in life or work? 

Synthia: I don't have one best, I have many. Each day I try to do a little bit better, continue to push myself as a person and a performer. 

JJ: That's the best way to be successful. Always push yourself to achieve a little bit more every day. 

What's the most challenging thing you've overcome? 

Synthia: My Childhood 

JJ: Yeah I think a lot of people's childhoods can be very tough. I think a lot of people are happy to get that part of their life over and done with. 
 
What's the best thing a fan has ever done for you? 

Synthia: I love when I get gifts just because. The dollar amount isn't important, the gesture is. So many guys ask us performers for free images and videos constantly, so it's nice when a fan shows his appreciation not just with words or retweets, but also his wallet. We do this as a job and many people don't get that. It can be frustrating so the fans that send appreciation like that mean a lot to me...more than they would ever know. 

JJ: There should be a beginners guide to being a customer as asking for freebies is the ultimate no no. To any guy reading this don't do it. Always pay for your porn. 
 
What's one bit of advice for anyone wanting to get into the adult industry? 

Synthia: Go into for the right reason, it's a fun job..but it's still a job. A job that can alienate you from friends and family, so have your head straight, be smart with the money and keep grounded. 

JJ: Fantastic advice. No more needs to be said. 
 
What do you think you'll do if you leave the industry completely? 

Synthia: I'm a tourist in this industry, I have a lot of things going on already. 

JJ: Well this is certainly one hell of a ride for a tourist and it's great to hear you have other things going on too. 
 
Finally, what's the weirdest rumour you've heard about yourself?

Synthia: That I was a sophisticated sex robot sent to the past to change the future for a few lucky people. 

JJ: Dammit that was a rumour I was just thinking of starting about you. Someone beat me to it haha. 

Thank you so much for being with me. It's been a pleasure and I'm looking forward to seeing more of your work this year.  
 

Saturday, 6 May 2017

Audrey and Sadie

Today you're getting two for the price of one. A very sexy duo who work together and play together. They're an amazing duo who are excited to give you all a better look at what makes this duo tick. Welcome Audrey and Sadie. 

 


JJ: Welcome to Inside the Porn. It's a pleasure to have you both with us today. 


What got you into the adult industry?


Audrey: I've always been a sexual person and I've always loved showing off my body. My friends older sister was a stripper and I was always so excited hearing her stories. I started stripping at 18, and eventually moved onto escorting.


Sadie: Growing up, my best friend and I always joked about becoming strippers. When we moved in together and were studying, stripping was no longer a joke, it was an attractive work opportunity for us to pursue whilst studying. I ended up moving into full-service after I found out that stripping wasn’t for me. Too many boozy-filled hours of hustling with little- to no reward. 


JJ: Sounds like you were both just naturally drawn to the industry. It looks like both of you are certainly thriving in the industry. 


What's the best thing about the industry?

Audrey: I love the free time it gives me to pursue my other interests. I can take time to chill out whenever I want.

Sadie: I love the people in the industry- they are such beautiful people and I don’t know where we would all be without each other. 


JJ: You both have a positive outlook about the industry and having free time is always important I agree. As for the people some of the greatest people I've met are in the adult industry. 

 
What's the worst thing about the industry? 

Audrey: Definitely the stigma. Anything negative that happens is made worse because of it.

Sadie: The Whorearchy e.g. when Strippers shame Full-Service providers to feel better about themselves. It doesn’t work, it just further stigmatises us all. 

JJ: I think the negative stigma around the industry is something that needs to change because people work hard, are caring and contribute to society. It's such a shame. 

What's the funniest thing to happen whilst working?

Audrey: The funniest thing to me is when any of us muddle up our dirty talk. I once said I wanted a clients cock in my "hard pussy".

Sadie: When I said to a male client “I can’t wait to be inside of you” when what I meant to say was “I can’t wait to have you inside of me”.

JJ: Obviously you both lose yourself in the moment which is never a bad thing I'd rather you say something wrong than not be into it. 
 
What are you up to work wise at the moment? 

Audrey & Sadie: At the moment we're working on organising more international tours. We've got one coming up in Auckland soon. We're wanting to do Asia, too.

JJ: You better hurry up and get to the UK. I'll be grumpy if you don't get over here soon. 

Where is the best place for people follow you online? 

Audrey: Definitely Twitter. It's where people can get to know us/our interests before meeting us. @audreyandsadie

Sadie: Our Website. It’s constantly evolving and we love uploading new material for you all! www.audreyandsadie.com 


JJ: I can say if you're not following this sexy duo you're certainly missing out. 

What's the best thing about sex? 

Audrey: I love hearing how happy and excited we can make people, and bringing them to their knees.

Sadie: The raw, heated intimacy. It’s a moment where you can see the vulnerability in people. 


JJ: Needless to say a guy who has you two at once is going to have the time of their lives. 
 
What are your biggest turn ons? 

Audrey: Pleasing while being pleased. It's why I love threesomes so much!

Sadie: Having two people devour me at the same time…. I also love to share

JJ: Working as a duo obviously suits you both perfectly then. It's important to have your turn ons met too. 

The question everyone reads first I'm sure, What's your favourite movie?

Sadie: LOTR trilogy

JJ: Right now I'm impressed with both of you. Great film choices. Marry me now both of you!! We'll make it work haha. 

Whats your favourite holiday destination?

Audrey: Honestly it depends on the mood I'm in. I have been to a lot of different countries and I love them all for different reasons. Probably Japan, though.

Sadie: Ireland! I have family in both Ireland and Scotland 


JJ: Japan is somewhere I desperately want to visit. Sadie next time you visit family let me know we'll give Ireland a run for its money haha. 

Tell me one thing about yourselves that people would never know by looking at you?


Audrey: Hmm. That I'm a bit of a 
geek I suppose. I love playing video games and reading obscure Wikipedia pages.


Sadie: I used to be really shy when growing up. These days i’m more of an extravert 

JJ: Audrey I have to say you sound just like me. I always find myself reading random Wikipedia pages. People tell me I have a problem haha. 

Sadie I think a lot of people who are extroverted start off introverted. Needless to say you both have surprised people. 
 
What's been your biggest achievement in life or work?

 
Audrey: Buying a house.


Sadie: Saving up enough money for my house deposit

JJ: Thise answers speak a lot about your character and it's great to see you planning for the future. 


What's the most challenging thing you've overcome? 


Audrey: Being outed to my parents. That was quite stressful.


Sadie: When my cousin passed away. We were really close and it was excruciatingly difficult. I don’t think it’s something you “overcome”, though. It’s something that gets easier in time but never goes away. 


JJ: I think being outed to family is never acceptable. I hope the person who outed you struggles to sleep at night. 

Losing someone close to you is something I too struggled with greatly a couple of years ago. It's something as you say can't overcome but you learn to live with. 
 
What's the best thing a fan has ever done for you? 


Audrey: I love when clients make artwork for us. Things like drawing, or even editing our photos.

 
Sadie: When a regular of ours gifted me a LOTR engraved ring. I thought it was the sweetest thing ever… 

JJ: It's great when people understand you and know you well enough to get you thoughtful gifts. 

What's one bit of advice for anyone wanting to get into the adult industry? 


Audrey: Be realistic, respect the workers who've been doing this much longer than you and don't shit on other workers.


Sadie: Make sure you don’t display your identity willy-nilly, right off the bat without giving it any forethought. You need to think this through. Have a big think about the repercussions that could stem from that: family/friends finding out, future job opportunities,  applying for house loans, etc. 


JJ: Thats great advice from you two. Things there to seriously consider. The industry is a complex world at times and advice like this is important. 

 
What do you think you'll do if you leave the industry? 

Audrey: Anything, really.  I love being creative, so definitely something that involves that. I could never do a desk job again.

Sadie: I'd love to study psychology!

JJ: I don't think either of you were ever meant to do a desk job. You've got an amazing personalities and lots of drive so I'm sure whatever you do you'll be successful. 

What's the weirdest rumour you've heard about yourselves? 

Audrey: I actually never really had any about me that I know of. I've always tried to steer clear from people who create drama.

Sadie: Hmm… I can’t think of any off the top of my head!

JJ: Obviously you're going an amazing job of keeping clients and other colleagues in the industry happy. It's great to see. 

It's been an absolute pleasure to have you both with me. You've been a handful but in the best possible way. Keep doing an amazing job.
 

Thursday, 4 May 2017

Stevie Mistress

Today I'm interviewing someone who is an ex babestation MILF and now she is taking the premium Snapchat world by storm. She is the very sexy Stevie Mistress. 
 
JJ: Hi Stevie. Welcome to Inside the Porn. It's a pleasure to have you with us. 

What got you into the adult industry?

Stevie: I first got into it many years ago when I began lap dancing and soon got asked to go and join Babestation back in the early days of that and then took a break to have a family.

JJ: Well you certainly are a pioneeer in the TV genre that is for sure. 

What's the best thing about the industry?

Stevie: The fact I can express just how naughty I really am. It's never an act and only do what I enjoy the most.

JJ: You are an incredibly horny woman I have to admit. I was surprised just how horny you are. 

What's the worst thing about the industry? 

Stevie: Easy, the time wasters and dreamers. Those that ask for freebies like I'm some sort of charity.

JJ: I genuinely hope that people who read this take the hint and realise no girls like to be asked for freebies. It's insulting. 

What's the funniest thing to happen whilst working?

Stevie: Probably when my husband and I were doing a live cam session and we were really going for it all of a sudden I realised we weren't in our old secluded house we were in our very open new place and the neighbours could see everything. I was going to go and ask them for a tip but it was a bit cold out.

JJ: Haha your neighbours must have been very haplt when you moved in haha. 
 
What are you up to work wise at the moment? 

Stevie: I've taken a step back from web cam work and spend most of my time on my premium snap chat which has really taken off well. My fans love how interactive I am with them compared to others they have purchased and right now I put a lot of my time into that.

JJ: The fact you've spent so much time on your Snapchat and being so interactive is why you're seeing such success with it. 

Where is the best place for people follow you online? 

Stevie: They can follow my Twitter. @BOREDHOUSEWIFE or add my public snapchat for a sneak peak of what goes on with my premium stevie-mistress also get me at www.onlyfans.com/steviemistress 

JJ: I genuinely have to say when I started following you I was really impressed with how interactive you are. 

What's the best thing about sex? 

Stevie: This is a tough one, it's so easy to say the orgasms however I like all of it from the foreplay to the first time their dick slides inside one of my holes. I must say I do find it easier to orgasm once I'm full of their juices.

JJ: Well I'll keep that in mind hahaha 
 
What are your biggest turn ons? 

Stevie: Most women probably moan when they lay next to their man at night and feel they have a stiff dick pressed in their back but for me this is a huge turn on it really gets my blood pumping and I soon find myself reaching round to make the first move.

JJ: Well a woman who loves that is definitely someone you should marry so your husband picked well. 

The question I love asking most, what's your favourite movie?

Stevie: Oh god I'm terrible I never ever remember the names of movies and watch the first half hour before I realise I've seen it already. The only films I can watch more than once is a good porn with lots of oil.

JJ: Haha you really are a horny bugger aren't you. I love it. 

Whats your favourite holiday destination?

Stevie: I like to travel and want to go to as many different places as possible before I return to the same place. I recently went to Barcelona and didn't think it would be my thing but it really was amazing. 

JJ: I love Barcelona. It's an amazing city. So beautiful. 

Tell me one thing about yourself that people would never know by looking at you?

Stevie: I've never in my life been to the gym or worked out. The amount of fans that ask me how often do I work out and are shocked when I tell them never is amazing.

JJ: You've just been blessed with a very impressive figure. One that a lot of people would kill for. 
 
What's been your biggest achievement in life or work? 

Stevie: Owning my own home to provide for my family. Away from all of this I'm a huge family person  and they always come first.

JJ: Being an a family person is an amazing achievement. So many people forget to put family first. 

What's the most challenging thing you've overcome? 

Stevie: I used to be very hot headed and lose my temper with anyone at the drop of a hat. I've learnt to channel my frustrations an go us on the bigger picture

JJ: The fact you can see that you were like that and was able to change is a big testament to the kind of person you are. 

What's the best thing a fan has ever done?

Stevie: Oh there's lots but one in particular treated me to the most amazing boots without me asking for them.

JJ: That's the kind of fan you want to have haha. 
 
What's one bit of advice for anyone wanting to get into the adult industry? 

Stevie: You have to be very strong willed and determined, know what you want from it and aim beyond that and you'll do just fine. The amount of grief I've had from people but I soon put them in their place.

JJ: That's great advice. Always aim beyond what you want. It helps making your goals more achievable

What do you think you'll do if you leave the industry completely?

Stevie: I'll still be me I'll still be kinky just I guess more behind closed doors.

JJ: Well I hope for sure that you're not going anywhere for a long time indeed. 
 
Finally, what's the weirdest rumour you've heard about yourself?

Stevie: To be honest not really had any other than I'm FAKE or a few that asked if I was a transgender. But I don't give people like that the time of the day.

JJ: Well the people who talk like that are obviously idiots because you're the most genuine and one of the sexiest women around

Thank you so much for being with me today. It's been an absolute pleasure and I look forward to seeing even more on your premium snapchat. 
 
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Wednesday, 3 May 2017

Vera Sky

Today I'm interviewing a woman who is possibly not just one of the nicest but also one of the sexiest camgirls around. She literally drives me insane in the best of ways. The amazing Vera Sky
 
JJ: Welcome to Inside the Porn. It's an absolute pleasure to have you with me today. 

How did you get into the industry? 

Vera: Everyone assumes Sex workers have a super sad story. Mine was simple really. A family member was having a tough time and was about to be evicted. I decided I couldn't see that happen and as I didn't have the money to help I thought I'd try camming. I followed a girl on Instagram called Sabrina Nellie and she always looked amazing and had nice things etc and I was always half naked on Instagram anyway so I thought I'd give it a shot. It's 3 years later and I'm still here. 

JJ: Wow. It was selfless to begin with by wanting to help but it's great to see that you were inspired and made it work for you. 

What's the best thing about the industry? 

Vera: The girls/models can be like a big family. You become so close to people. They're so genuine and caring. They're some of the most brace women and they are willing to stand up for the people in the camming community. 

JJ: I've been lucky enough to experience that through so many interviews with cam girls. It's inspirational to see. 

What's the worst thing about the industry? 

Vera: The guys that expect things for free or the guys that expect me to be camera ready 24 hours a day, my makeup on, wearing sexy clothes and ready to go at a moments notice. It's not realistic. If you are a guy and you want her to send nudes and have her Snapchat etc then be a gentleman, be respectful and pay us for our time and hard work. 

JJ: That's a big problem that with so much free porn out there guys are forgetting that women aren't just there to please 24/7. 
 
What's the funniest thing to happen to you whilst working? 

Vera: Twice this has happened to me now but whilst I was doing a girl/girl show we were using sensual oils and candles etc but it unfortunately set off the smoke alarms. We thought we'd stopped the show and turned the camera off and we were running around naked trying to stop the alarms but we hadn't turned off the camera and everyone saw us looking like crazy women. Funnily it was popular as we were one of the most popular rooms of the night. 

JJ: Hahaha now that must have been hilarious. I'd have paid just to see that. 

What are you up to workwise at the moment? 

Vera: I took a little break but I'm getting back into the flow of things. I want to start a YouTube channel if I can and I'm nominated for the Xbiz cam awards and I am hoping to get some more girl/girl shows done (without the smoke alarms) 

JJ: Sounds like you're being kept very busy but that's a very good thing. 

Where is the best place to follow you online? 

Vera: The beat place to follow me is Twitter. I do all my updates there etc. My Twitter is @veraskylive 

JJ: What's the best thing about sex? 

Vera: The best thing for me is the foreplay. The flirting and the build up. I like doing lots of teasing. All the fun stuff really. 

JJ: What are your biggest turn ons? 

Vera: My biggest turn on is intelligent men. I don't like douchy gym guys, frat guys, guys who run money in other people's faces. I'm attracted and turned on by humble guys. A guy that's sensible, smart and decent. 

JJ: Right this very second it only just clicked you were describing me. I'm so humbled haha. 
 
The question that everyone waits for now, what's your favourite movie? 

Vera: Oh wow.. I really liked Avatar. It was the first film I'd been to see in a while when it came out. It took my breath away and I'm really looking forward to the next one so if anyone knows when it's coming out please let me know. 

JJ: Great choice of film. I think the second one is going to be even more mind blowing if I'm honest. 

What's your favourite place to go on holiday? 

Vera: My favourite place to go on holiday is back home. I always have the most fun there. I love having my family around me. It just can't be beaten. 

JJ: I think appreciating time with family is an amazing thing and too many people forget that family is what truly matters. 

Tell me one thing about yourself I wouldn't know just by looking at you? 

Vera: I'm extremely intelligent. Not many people would know that. I went to a good Catholic school when I was younger, unfortunately though I got kicked out for defending another girl. Currently I'm going to nursing school and getting ready to finish that. 

JJ: So not only have you for brains and beauty you have a big heart too. That's the perfect woman. 
 
What's been your biggest achievement in life or work so far? 

Vera: My biggest achievement was probably when I was a Personal Stylist at a big store in Washington. I would work with politicians and celebrities and it was just amazing. I started at the bottom but in my first day I sold $25,000 worth of stuff to an NFL player. I quickly rose up the ranks and developed a great client list. It was a dream of mine to do something like that. 

JJ: Wow that must have been a brilliant job. I could do with a personal stylist so now I know where to go to haha. 
 
What's been the biggest thing you've had to overcome? 

Vera: Extreme bullying. I don't want to go into too much detail here about it but I was bullied as a kid in elementary and high school. I remember being in 6th grade and someone wrote all these horrible things about me all over the bathroom stalls. It was a horrible experience but those things helped me become the woman who I am today. 

JJ: I think that living through something like bullying can only make a person stronger and more observant of people's actions towards others around them and it allows you to stand up and say no more. 
 
What's the nicest thing a fan has ever done for you? 

Vera: One of my fans sent me five big boxes of roses. They were so stunning. It was amazing to wake up to roses all over my doorstep. Some of my fans have actually gone on to become friends. I don't see them as cam related people but genuine friends. It's cool you can build friendships. Another fan has sent me a return trip ticket to Hawaii to go and visit him too which is something I'm looking forward to later this year. 

JJ: It seems your fans have a lot of love for you which speaks volumes about the type of person you are. 

What's one bit of advice you'd give to someone getting into the industry? 

Vera: Don't limit yourself because you're scared of being caught. Be open and proud. If you're getting into the industry people will find out. You have to own it. I'm proud of it. My family all know which means it wouldn't be a shock to them someday. My success started coming once I realised I was proud of the work and I owned everything that comes with it. 

JJ: That's brilliant advice. If you can be proud of what you do you'll push yourself harder and further and experience true success not just financially but personally too. 
 
What do you think you'd do if you ever left the industry? 

Vera: I'd be a nurse or a personal stylist. However I don't think I'll ever completely leave the industry as it changed my life so much. Maybe I'll start my own website, blog or even cam company? Who knows what the future holds. 

JJ: When something changes your life so profoundly it's hard to just walk away from it for a different career. I can definitely understand that. 

Finally, what's the weirdest rumour you've heard about yourself? 

Vera: The weirdest rumour about me was apparently I was dating a well off guy and he had some famous friends, people would keep saying I was pregnant by them, or I was dating them or I was married to them. It's crazy. There was also a rumour before I started camming that I moved to Washington DC to be a sugarbaby to my ex fiance's dad. I was apparently sleeping with them both. The rumour however made it back to my family which could have caused issues but luckily it didn't. But that rumour was also false. 

JJ: People really need to find better hobbies than spreading rumours. It's such a waste of time and can do damage sometimes. 

I'm so glad we found the time to do the interview and I'm looking forward to seeing what the future holds for you. Good luck with your career. 
 

Monday, 1 May 2017

Sarah Jane

Today I'm talking to a woman who took the industry by the balls, she worked hard and made herself into a one woman business. She had become a respected columnist, model, business woman and she's here today to tell you all a bit more about herself. Welcome the very inspiring Sarah Jane. 

 

JJ: Welcome to Inside the Porn. It's a pleasure to have you with us today. 


What got you into the adult industry?


Sarah: I am and have always been an exhibitonist, sexually openminded and willing to try new things. Sex is a great part of my life and the older and maturer I became the more I started to explore orgies. I came into this industry with my eyes wide open. I saw an opportunity in the market and don’t we all know sex sells right? It is just knowing exactly where to put yourself, although it is a “taboo” industry, in that small niche it is competetive. The challenge of that, got me in the industry. 


JJ: It's already clear you're a woman who will face a challenge head on and will work until you conquer it. 


What's the best thing about the industry?


Sarah: The best thing about working within the industry is everybodys “openess” to try new things, to openly talk about sex, to understand and acknowledge the “language of love” – or shall I say “language of sex.”  Sex comes in all shapes and sizes, not just referring to speaking sexual appetites and delving into our many fantasies, but exploring new experiences, learning and sharing. People in this industry kind of run with their own little bubbles .. we are all different but all exactly the same at the same time, make sense? Freedom of sexuality this is how we are made!


JJ: That's a great way way to look at things. More people should look at the world like that. 


What's the worst thing about the industry? 


Sarah: You gotta keep it classy! I am not at all a fan of girls posting their most intimate areas to social media you have to keep your dignity for christ sake. You hear stories of women who end up in this industry who are the ones with horrific childhoods and that’s why they end up in porn kinda like a “way out” well what a load of crap! For one, I do not entertain porn, I do entertain parties and beautiful women and couples. Any woman can go out and get any job they want. The sex industry is a choice not a last resort. People place me in a box sometimes of being too wild, fucked up, but I am actually a positive voice for women out there to prove that you do not have to have a fucked up life to end up in this industry. It stands to reason, I guess it depends what it is you actually do in this industry?!  I am here to entertain and host erotic parties… I do not post ‘below the belt (ha literally)’naked pics of myself to my SM I kinda have morals! Each to their own. Opinions are an entitlement. Women are beautiful human beings I find it bizarre when they exploit themselves. 

 

JJ: What's the funniest thing to happen whilst working?


Sarah: I used to giggle to myself when I saw women being slaves to demanding males, women who wear head masks and eat from their dom’s feet. It isn’t my kinda thing, the first time was funny, however now, when stuff like that passes my nose, I am utterly used to it. After a while the funny things become normal and you become pretty passive. 


JJ: I think being in the adult industry the most crazy things can become very normal haha

 

What are you up to work wise at the moment? 


Sarah: I have just finished writing an article for GQ Magazine regarding “sex party etiquette’ which is to be published online so please keep an eye out. I keep all my followers up to date via my online diary on my new personal website sarahjaneofficial.uk I have just been approached by Channel 5 to appear on an upcoming series about the sex industry. I have a meeting this week, my online diary will tell you the outcome and updates! I am also in the midst of a new brand, new “sex” project and recently switched to a new investor. I model on the side and I am pretty much living out my suitcase, always looking for the next opportunity and constantly reinvetning myself, I am still heavily in attendance to the erotic party world (worldwide). I used to live in Asia and I have a few peeps over there that entertain whom I stay in touch with and attend as much as I can! 


Where is the best place for people follow you online?


Sarah: The best places to find me is my website sarahjaneofficial.uk, Instagram: sazzajane, Twitter: sazzajane0, Snapchat: Sjbanahan / Im No Angel

Facebook is a no-no I quit that bullshit a year ago. Hashtags are powerful.. Facebook depressed me!!


JJ: I think that people should definitely get following you as you post some amazing stuff. 

 

What's the best thing about sex? 


Sarah: Being confident and loving your body. No point being intimate if you don’t know how to please yourself either by touching yourself or looking at yourself naked. Confidence is sexy, the rest will follow… Mindset is a wonderful thing! Sex is only good when you know what youre doing and the person who has the same mindset: confidence.


JJ: It's great that confidence is what you think is the best thing about sex. It's not an answer many people give. 


What are your biggest turn ons? 


Sarah: Now this really depends on my mood. I can go from girl next door to slapping you acrosos the face within seconds. I love confidenceI hate questions. The bodys reactions and facial expressions are all the hidden answers one needs. Well that’s how I roll anyway, I cannot speak for everybody else. 


JJ: The question I've been waiting to ask is what's your favourite movie?


Sarah: I used to love gangster movies. As I get older I am starting to love silly, romantic movies I like the simpliness to them. As I get busier (and I will regret this when I write the following) but, I am starting to get a feel for sci-fi. I have never in my life enjoyed sci-fi, but their stories seem to take me away from my own problems, or hurdles and I find sci-fi an escape of my own life sometimes. I play hardball constantly, gangster is as hard as you can get, maybe I mirrored that in my life to get what I wanted (the attitude not the gory stuff lol) I loved the respect they had from people but maybe I am just changing, change is good. 


JJ: Well I agree change is very good. Movies should let you escape your world for a while and let you feel like you've escaped. I'd have never guessed you were interested in Sci-Fi though. 

 

Whats your favourite holiday destination?


Sarah: Huge fan of The Datai - Langkawi Island in Indonesiaone of my favourite destinations for peace and quiet. I am starting to hit America a bit more now, however I see the USA as worka party place to visit only – I like small quiet islands in Europe, they are all on my doorstep. You cannot beat the Mediterranean  Sea, for me, the best sea in the world! 


JJ: I've said this before in an Interview but my peace and quiet place is Santa Eulalia in Ibiza. It's so quiet and quaint with beautiful coastlines. I always relax best there. 


Tell me one thing about yourself that people would never know by looking at you?


Sarah: I always brush my teeth in the shower. I never have a shower until it has been running for more than 10 minutes as I like getting naked within the steam. I hate being cold and I love walking around naked, but only if its generally warm. When I sleep I follow the heat, no matter a friend, a relative or lying next to a boyfriend, guaranteed they would wake up with me hugging them.


JJ: They are some of my favourite answers for that question. Just for the record I'm like a little radiator I'm always warm haha. 

 

What's been your biggest achievement in life or work? 


Sarah: Starting a business. Getting everything I have ever wanted in life. Being ballsy and not giving a shit what anybody speaks of me. Opinions of sheep never matter when you run amongst the lions. Life is short go for it 110% or fuck off wasting peoples time and your own. You gotta believe in yourself and own it!


JJ: It's clear to see why you've had so much success. You're driven and hard working and it's that drive that's propelled you to success. 


What's the most challenging thing you've overcome? 


Sarah: Unreliability in people whom you think care about you. People will show up when they think they are gaining something from you, be careful of those people, they are in it for gold not your respect, that disheartens me. You get used to timewasters and you learn to have a stronger grip, knowing when to pull the reigns in and always, always remain calm, be the better person. Smiling is all you need, that helps overcome a lot of bullshit. 


JJ: I think figuring out who you can really rely on and trust is definitely the most challenging thing in my opinion. There's a lot of people that tell you what you want to hear as long as it suits them. 

 

What's the best thing a fan has ever done for you? 


Sarah:Support me, throughout the good and the bad and still be there to witness and salute me on my journey. My biggest respect is for my fans, they pull me through, even when they don’t realize their worth to me.. I aspire to inspire.


JJ: That's great that you can take strength from your fans like that. It's a big salute to those fans who may have inspired you. 


What's one bit of advice for anyone wanting to get into the adult industry? 


Sarah: Set youself a goal of what exactly you want to do. Do NOT ever move that goal post. Keep going. Be strong and be ready for critism on all levels, even from your closest acquaintances. Study your competitors religiously, be one step ahead. One more thing: always collaboratewhen given the opportunity.


JJ: That's some very strong advice. I can see if people follow that then they'll have great success moving forward. 

 

What do you think you'll do if you leave the industry?

 

Sarah: I will carry on writing, Write more books and I would love to get into acting eventually.. like a naughty Bond Girl that'll suit me just fine!  


JJ: I could imagine you as a naughty Bond girl. That certainly would suit you. I'm not sure Bond could handle you though haha. 


Finally, What's the weirdest rumour you've heard about yourself?


Sarah: That I’m a Porn star, enough said haha. 


JJ: That's obviously someone who hasn't been paying attention to who you are at all. 


Thank you so much for being with me today and I always look forward to reading your articles as they are always a great read.