Claire: I was backpacking in Australia and ran out of funds. I saw a funny advert in the local paper asking for ladies for an 'upmarket gentleman's club' so I called and got an immediate interview having NO clue it was a brothel. It was so clean and lovely though that I decided to have a try for one evening and I earned more in one shift than the previous two weeks waitressing, and the rest is history.
JJ: Well that just goes to show how much someone's life can change in just one night.
Claire: I'm touring the US for as long as my visa keeps allowing me entry. Even with a 10 year multiple entry visa you never know how long they'll give at the border or if they decide you've been in too much.
Claire: I love twitter! I'm fully myself on it so guys can get to know my personality as well as see pics I don't post elsewhere. @clairecavendish if you're interested
Claire: Sense of humour and not taking things too seriously, strong arms and hands, not too much manscaping. Grooming is fine but full body hair removal on a guy and overly 'neat' head hair is yuck. A bit of rough masculinity is my thing!
Claire: I love the Greek Islands. The food is great and the weather was always amazing to me coming from a soggy part of the UK. Their summer was solid sun in Greece!
Claire: I'm a fully trained Psychologist? I paint in acrylics? I love to renovate houses!
Claire: Looking after myself financially since I was 15. I've always worked for my own money and though I haven't always been clever with money I'm not in debt or beholden to anyone else.
Claire: Being a mum. I had a daughter and I lost the plot. I left her when she was 5, to my shame, for her dad to bring up. I lived in the U.K and France for 5 years then but when she turned 11 she came to France to stay and I fell in love with her and went back to Australia to devote myself to attempting to be a good mum. It's the hardest work being a parent.
Claire: God I've been given so much by gents I've met! Jewellery, amazing wine and trips, clothes, but the most amazing thing a guy in the UK did was create a business proposal for an exclusive arrangement that lasted 5 years and allowed me to travel to Australia 3 times a year to see my daughter. I grew to love the man (not in a relationship way, more as a genuine soul friend) and we still see each other when I visit England.
Claire: Do your research, come into it with an attitude of service and learning. There will be dodgy guys but don't let them affect you or make you cynical because in my experience 90% of men are wonderful.
Claire: I'm working towards retirement in a couple of years with a view to buying a big house in France again and running it as a boutique hotel.
Claire: I heard one once that I was a bigamist!!??? WTF!!!
What's the best thing about the industry?
Claire: The flexibility it offers women with a family, the opportunities for travel, the amazing gents I get to meet, freedom and independence.
JJ: That's what most people would kill for in a job.
What's the worst thing about the industry?
Claire: I know many don't like the stigma/illegality but I don't mind that, as I keep it as my completely secret life. I have no need for it to be acceptable - this is my life and I like it compartmentalised. I guess being hounded by LE in the US is the worst thing and worrying about safety.
What's the funniest thing to happen whilst working?
Claire: A guy came to see me and took vegetables out of a bag to use as sex toys and proceeded to don a nun's habit!! I was a newbie and to my shame I laughed - I know enough now to know human sexuality has many different forms!!
JJ: I'm not sure many people would be prepared fir that situation haha.
What are you up to work wise at the moment?
Claire: I'm touring the US for as long as my visa keeps allowing me entry. Even with a 10 year multiple entry visa you never know how long they'll give at the border or if they decide you've been in too much.
JJ: Where is the best place for people follow you online?
Claire: I love twitter! I'm fully myself on it so guys can get to know my personality as well as see pics I don't post elsewhere. @clairecavendish if you're interested
JJ: If you're not following Claire then get following her now. You won't regret it.
What's the best thing about sex?
Claire: The feel of another's skin and hands on you, and touching them - a brief connection of bodies and minds, stress relief!!
JJ: Yes, I can totally agree with that. Great minds hobo alike.
What are your biggest turn ons?
Claire: Sense of humour and not taking things too seriously, strong arms and hands, not too much manscaping. Grooming is fine but full body hair removal on a guy and overly 'neat' head hair is yuck. A bit of rough masculinity is my thing!
JJ: It's like you've found your dream man in me haha. Try to control yourself please haha.
The question which makes or breaks many of or guests is, What's your favourite movie?
Claire: My inner Geek says Star Wars (original one) but my favourite of last year was Hell to High Water - I saw it 3 times in 3 different American cities.
JJ: Star Wars is a great choice. Brilliant story and cast. I've not seen Hell to High Water but I will make a point to watch it over the weekend.
Whats your favourite holiday destination?
Claire: I love the Greek Islands. The food is great and the weather was always amazing to me coming from a soggy part of the UK. Their summer was solid sun in Greece!
JJ: I love Greece. I really like Halkadiki actually. I was surprised how much I liked it.
Tell me one thing about yourself that people would never know by looking at you?
Claire: I'm a fully trained Psychologist? I paint in acrylics? I love to renovate houses!
JJ: Wow they are some very different things. I've decided I want one of your paintings in my office haha.
What's been your biggest achievement in life or work?
Claire: Looking after myself financially since I was 15. I've always worked for my own money and though I haven't always been clever with money I'm not in debt or beholden to anyone else.
JJ: Well not being beholden to anyone is a great thing. A lot of people would kill to be in that position for sure.
What's the most challenging thing you've overcome?
Claire: Being a mum. I had a daughter and I lost the plot. I left her when she was 5, to my shame, for her dad to bring up. I lived in the U.K and France for 5 years then but when she turned 11 she came to France to stay and I fell in love with her and went back to Australia to devote myself to attempting to be a good mum. It's the hardest work being a parent.
JJ: We all make mistakes. Life isn't easy and very few people live the perfect life. The main thing is you reconnected with your daughter.
What's the best thing a fan has ever done for you?
Claire: God I've been given so much by gents I've met! Jewellery, amazing wine and trips, clothes, but the most amazing thing a guy in the UK did was create a business proposal for an exclusive arrangement that lasted 5 years and allowed me to travel to Australia 3 times a year to see my daughter. I grew to love the man (not in a relationship way, more as a genuine soul friend) and we still see each other when I visit England.
JJ: That's a brilliant thing that you found someone who had not become a true friend to you.
What's one bit of advice for anyone wanting to get into the adult industry?
Claire: Do your research, come into it with an attitude of service and learning. There will be dodgy guys but don't let them affect you or make you cynical because in my experience 90% of men are wonderful.
JJ: That's great advice. People will succeed if they follow that advice I'm sure.
What do you think you'll do if you leave the industry?
Claire: I'm working towards retirement in a couple of years with a view to buying a big house in France again and running it as a boutique hotel.
JJ: When the hotel is up and running I'll be expecting an invite haha.
Finally, What's the weirdest rumour you've heard about yourself?
Claire: I heard one once that I was a bigamist!!??? WTF!!!
JJ: Hahaha I love that. It makes me chuckle that is the best rumour someone could come up with haha.
Thank you so much for being with me today. It's been a pleasure to have you here and look forward to my invite to your hotel haha.
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